I bend but I do not break
Being Twenty-Something
They call it the "Quarter-life Crisis." It is when you stop going along
with the crowd and start realizing that there are many things about yourself
that you didn't know and may not like. You start feeling insecure and wonder
where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you
barely know where you are now.
You start realizing that people are selfish and that, maybe, those
friends that you thought you were so close to aren't
exactly the greatest people you have ever met, and the people
you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. What you
don't recognize is that they are realizing that too, and aren't really
cold, catty, mean or insincere but that they are as confused as you.
You look at your job...and it is not even close to what you thought
you would be doing, or maybe you are looking for a
job and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom
and that scares you. Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what
others are doing and find yourself judging more than usual because
suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and
are constantly adding things to your list of what is acceptable and
what isn't.
One minute, you are insecure and then the next, secure. You laugh and
cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared
and confused. Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try and
cling on to the past with dear life, but soon realize that the past is
drifting further and further away, and there is nothing to do but stay
where you are or move forward.
You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do
such damage to you. Or you lay in bed and wonder why you can't meet
anyone decent enough that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you
love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why you
are doing this because you know that you aren't a bad person.
One-night-stands and random hook ups start to look cheap. Getting
wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic.
You go through the same emotions and questions over and over, and talk
with your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make
a decision. You worry about loans, money, the future and making a
life for yourself... and while winning the race would be great, right
now you'd just like to be a contender!
What you may not realize is that everyone reading this relates to it.
We are in our best of times and our worst of times, trying as hard as
we can to figure this whole thing out.
"I bend but I do not break."
Being Twenty-Something
They call it the "Quarter-life Crisis." It is when you stop going along
with the crowd and start realizing that there are many things about yourself
that you didn't know and may not like. You start feeling insecure and wonder
where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you
barely know where you are now.
You start realizing that people are selfish and that, maybe, those
friends that you thought you were so close to aren't
exactly the greatest people you have ever met, and the people
you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. What you
don't recognize is that they are realizing that too, and aren't really
cold, catty, mean or insincere but that they are as confused as you.
You look at your job...and it is not even close to what you thought
you would be doing, or maybe you are looking for a
job and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom
and that scares you. Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what
others are doing and find yourself judging more than usual because
suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and
are constantly adding things to your list of what is acceptable and
what isn't.
One minute, you are insecure and then the next, secure. You laugh and
cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared
and confused. Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try and
cling on to the past with dear life, but soon realize that the past is
drifting further and further away, and there is nothing to do but stay
where you are or move forward.
You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do
such damage to you. Or you lay in bed and wonder why you can't meet
anyone decent enough that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you
love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why you
are doing this because you know that you aren't a bad person.
One-night-stands and random hook ups start to look cheap. Getting
wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic.
You go through the same emotions and questions over and over, and talk
with your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make
a decision. You worry about loans, money, the future and making a
life for yourself... and while winning the race would be great, right
now you'd just like to be a contender!
What you may not realize is that everyone reading this relates to it.
We are in our best of times and our worst of times, trying as hard as
we can to figure this whole thing out.
"I bend but I do not break."
